When fear shows up how do you meet it? Do you meet it…..

I watched Nina speak reverently and with such passion. Her words conveying her desire for equality and freedom.

I agree with her point and then I got to thinking… is this my idea of freedom? The lack of fear?


When fear shows up: I have a 10 seconds rule:

For 10 seconds ONLY

I allow myself to submit to the fear. I dive into the pit of what if’s, the dread of the worst possible outcome, the crushing weight of myself imposed failure. I allow what ever physical expression to manifest. I accept, acknowledge, and address my fear head on. Like a fish to water I allow the pain to engulf me.. For 10 seconds…

And then.. I do.

The addendum to life is despite fear life goes on, with or without me. So despite my fears I move. Despite my fear I do. Despite my fear I achieve. And move on. Accepting my place gives me the ability to check in and evaluate my progress as well as my needs to achieve my goal. I don’t get stuck anymore because I allow the space.

Freedom to me is not the lack of fear, fear is just an indicator, but rather the ability to achieve and function at our best despite the fear.

When you build it, you realize they have been waiting.

Today was the day!!!!! SBRNG🚀💯🙌🏾 Thank you Trail Coffee Roasters for your fabulous drinks and treats!

Networking, like sitting in a place and meeting people is not an issue, in theory. In fact people speak to me, often. Lol but doing it..well that’s something else. Starting it, meaning creating it is another thing.

My fear👀: No one would show up and I would be just sitting there… alone. I know not the end of the world, but that’s ok!

Truth: I was not alone! It’s a coffee shop and I worked through it.

I met Susan and her daddy Ben today. It’s her birthday and she is 3 years old! They shared a few minutes of their time and we wished her happy birthday 🎊🎂🎉🎁🎈 with a cookie, although she did tell her daddy the cookie was NOT a replacement for her cake 😒🤣💯

I sat in the coffee shop and enjoyed the place I have arrived that allows me the opportunity to network on a Tuesday morning within my community.

My life has measurable goals and outcomes and this was yet another achievement!! Today it was 4 attendees, 1 photographer, 2 kidlets being cuter then cute, 1 dad who is studying Japanese, & me!!!

I look forward to seeing what next week brings! Thank you in advance!

Stockton Business & Referral Networking Group Launch! Well tomorrow lol

It’s my LAUNCH 🚀 Tomorrow!

If you live or work in Stockton or the surrounding areas, or know anyone who does, you are welcomed!

Group Networking Goals= Pay It Forward

Let’s meet, lets get to know each other, lets grow!

How this works?

Bring a business card

Take a business card

Call the person who’s card you picked

In 1 weeks times connect with that person to see how you can be of assistance/ service.

Yep thats it!

I look forward to meeting you all!

Stockton Business & Referral Networking Group Launch

Hello All. You are all INVITED to join me in launching Stockton Business & Referral Networking Group! I truly believe that when we step out and connect with others, great things happen. SOOOOOO 

I hope this day finds you well!

I am a newer resident of Stockton and although I have lived here for over a year I am a commuter. Until recently..

I am looking forward to growing within this community and what better way than to meet others right?! I have been taking walks, and drives, and getting to know my local business owners, and neighbors. 

I truly believe in the power of connecting. I have had the pleasure of traveling and meeting wonderful people. It is my goal to continue that practice here in Stockton. 

  • Who: A person in business. (Small, Medium, Online, MLM, Sales, Coaching, Dentist, Florist, etc) 
  • When: Every Tuesday 10am-11:30am
  • Where: Downtown Stockton Trails Coffee (Buy your own beverage)

Group Networking Goals= Pay It Forward

Let’s meet, let’s get to know each other, let’s grow!

  1. Bring a business card
  2. Take a business card
  3. Call the person whose card you picked
  4. In 1 weeks times connect with that person to see how you can be of assistance/ service.

Yep that’s it!

I look forward to meeting you every Tuesday, beginning May 29th 10am!

RoadTrip! Happy Hump Day

HappyHumpDay y’all! How are you planning or creating your life? Today what intention will you follow through on? What new goal will be reached? What new lesson will you learn, what place will you implement?

Today we begin #AZROADTRIP!! It’s amazing how quickly life adds up. In the middle of hardships life can feel overwhelming, long and never ending. Yet in happiness wow how time flies by! Tomorrow my baby bro graduates 🎓 from college🤭! Damn I’m proud.

On our way to #arizona for celebrations 🎉

Life is a plan..relationships of any kind, especially intimate lasting relationships, require input, consideration & planning.

I appreciate that I have the ability to take a road trip with 7 people I love for 5 days without the worries of my past. You know requesting days off or a boss and all that Jazz…

I can see my #radicalselfcare and how it has paid off.

Are you able to look at your life and see overall satisfaction reflected back?

College graduation began 20 plus years ago, when my baby bro asked what he would do and he was told, graduate from college and enjoy life!!! YEEEEEEEEEEE lets me be clear it wasn’t a straight road nor was it uncomplicated. It was worth it, it is worth it! Creating a plan leads to greater success. I’m so proud to be able to see the benefits!


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